Saturday, October 4, 2014

Why I Love Home Depot Kids Workshops

I first heard about the Home Depot Kids Workshops before E&O were old enough to participate.  As soon as I felt like both kids were coordinated enough to use a hammer, I decided to try out these Home Depot Kids Workshops.  Actually, Elsie came home from PreK last year having completed one of their projects and I realized it was time.

Here's why I love Home Depot Kids Workshops:

1.  They are FREE.  Plus they give out a free apron to each child.

2.  Depending on how much a parent helps or doesn't help, they can be empowering confidence boosters for the kids.  Most times, E & O enjoy pounding away at their projects (O is a natural with a hammer).  When we made the pencil crate, Elsie wouldn't let me help her at all, and while it wasn't perfect, it was hers and she was so proud!

3.  They're well-executed -- today, for instance, we made an EMS truck.  And wouldn't you know, they had a real ambulance, a fire truck, and a police car out for the kids to explore.  The kids got fire hats and other goodies.  Chick-Fil-A minis were also given away.  It was awesome.  When we went the weekend of the first Auburn home football game, they had face painting and Chick-Fil-A.  Win-win.

4.  They are scheduled for weekends that we can be there.  It's like the Home Depot execs are in my brain and know what we have going on, and when we have a free weekend they say, "Hey, let's have a Kids Workshop for the Beavers."  Or something like that.

5.  They give out pins that the kids collect.  It's like getting badges in scouting.  Except I don't have to sew them onto a sash or vest.  It's beautiful.  This is probably my favorite part, actually.

6.  It can be a great family adventure, but I can also take the kids solo--depending on the weekend.

The other home improvement store in town (rhymes with "rows") also has free kids workshops to help them "build and grow," just so you know, but you have to register in advance and there are a limited number of spots.  I've never been able to get one.  Plus, they seem to host their workshops on weekends that we are not available anyway.  I really would like to try them out, but from what I've read, their projects are better for older children anyway, so I'm not in a hurry to get in there and experience it.  I do want to get the child-sized safety goggles and pick up a couple of child-sized hammers soon, though.

Anyway, I was just thinking about this and wanted to put my thoughts into words.

Cheers.

Friday, October 3, 2014

5 Months of Gladys

I blinked.

Five months!?!  Yes, Gladys Ann is still the sweetest Beaver baby.  She's smiling up a storm and is starting to giggle.  We are still in size 2 diapers and will be for a while.  Just this last week we pulled out the 6 months clothing sizes, but we may have waited too long, if the feet in her sleepers are any indication.  Haha.  At her 4-month check-up, she was 15 pounds, 2 ounces--and she's continuing to grow.

The news for this month is that she is starting to cut a tooth...a molar on the lower right.  I've noticed the spot on her gums for a while--white instead of pink, and thought it must be some sort of mouth sore because she's too young!  Nope.  It's a tooth.

She hasn't rolled over yet, but it's coming soon.  I know that once she starts moving, she's going to get trucking!  She is scooching all over the place when she's laying on her back, pushing herself backward and sideways.

Gladys is also doing fairly well at daycare.  This month she's done the hunger strike thing a couple of times.  She's not cranky or anything, but she's not eating.  I figure if she's in a good mood and she's growing fine, then that's not a problem.

Also, this month, I went ahead and got some pacifiers to have at the house, because of this:




She's not a thumb-sucker, per se, but she getting to the point that she wants to have something in her mouth as she falls asleep, and if I had to choose, I would NOT choose thumb.  So, Soothie it is.

Some friends lent us the exer-saucer thing, and Gladys has love it (you know, except for the first time she fell asleep in it--pictured above).

Also, September is rife with football games, so while Eli takes the big kids off my hands on Thursday nights, G & I head out to be with the cheerleaders as the middle school plays.  She is such a good baby.  She's either smiling or sleeping (pictured above).


I had to fold a ton of clothes the other day, and Gladys did not want to be put down.  Those two things did not mix.  So, I gave her a towel to fold.  It had to re-washed later due to massive amounts of baby drool, but it did the trick.


I'm trying to make the most of these baby months as I know that they are fleeting.  This girl is going to be something special, temperamentally--and yet I can't figure out what she'll be like!  Love this girl!

Cheers!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Debt Update, October 2014 -- Debt-free and continuing forward...



Yes, it's a been a long time coming (six years and seven months), but we are finally debt-free, except for the house.

To recap, we took Financial Peace University at our church in Tuscaloosa in February of 2008.  That's when we were introduced to Dave Ramsey's biblical money-handling ministry.  We were young (I was 27, Eli 26).  We thought we were doing pretty well financially as far as how we were handling things and paying back our debt, but I had always been interested in personal finance, so I dragged Eli to the class.  By the third week of FPU, he was on board.  Boy, did we have a lot to learn.  Shortly after we graduated, I lost my job, and Eli found a job in Opelika, so we moved.

Fast forward three and a half years to the fall of 2011.  We had two kids and house.  We were still paying faithfully on our debts, but our snowball got derailed by daycare for two children.  We had paid off the smaller amounts--a vehicle, credit cards, my student loans--and were faced with two MASSIVE student loans for Eli's undergrad and law school.  It was daunting, to say the least.

I took to the discussion forums at mytotalmoneymakeover.com for some advice and encouragement, and someone mentioned creating mini thermometers, breaking the large number up into more manageable chunks and so that's what I did.  I looked at what we had left after paying for 3.5 years--approximately $52,000--and borrowed a fundraising thermometer from a friend's adoption blog, and posted those bad boys one by one, $10,000 at a time, at the side of the blog for all to see, starting October 1, 2011.


  • Debt Thermometer 1, $10,000, October 1, 2011 - April 28, 2012 (7 months)
  • Debt Thermometer 2, $10,000, May 1, 2012 - December 30, 2012 (7.5 months)
  • Debt Thermometer 3, $10,000, January 1, 2013 - September 23, 2013 (8 months)
  • Debt Thermometer 4, $10,000, September 24, 2013 - April 17, 2014 (6 months)
  • Debt Thermometer 5, $10,000, April 17, 2014 - August 11, 2014 (4.5 months)
  • Debt Thermometer 6, $3,596,  August 11, 2014 - September 24, 2014 (1.5 months)


Looking at the numbers and the timeline over the last almost-three years, we paid off half of that debt in one year!  It seems surreal.  We worked our buns off, Eli particularly so, and it happened more and more quickly.

Somehow, it all seems both invigorating and anticlimactic, haha.  We still have work to do.  Lots of work.  Remember the Baby Steps?  Well, we just finished Baby Step 2 of SEVEN.    So, we keep moving forward.  Baby Step 3 is to save up three to six months of expenses, so the ideal plan is to spend the next year and three months throwing money at our emergency fund so that my "security gland" is satiated.

But, mostly, I can't believe that we're done with the debt part.  There were times that it seemed to be interminable, that the progress was slow-going.  Knowing that I felt like that has helped to frame some of the best lessons along the way.

Here are some things I learned while becoming debt-free.

  1. We can't make progress if we don't begin.
    • Seems like common sense, right?  A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and all that.  Start.  Now.  Otherwise, precious time is lost. 
  2. It helps to set goals, short- and long-term.  Visuals are a great help!
    • I ran a marathon in San Francisco in October 2007.  The last five miles were a long, straight, stretch of highway along the Pacific coast, but it was peppered with traffic signals.  While I knew I had to go the entire five miles to finish, I still had to challenge myself to get to each of those traffic signals--microgoals, if you will.  Knowing I could achieve those little goals gave enough small boosts of confidence to spur me on.  That's what the debt thermometers were for me--traffic signals on the road to the finish line.  
  3. We don't have to be perfect.
    • This is where I say that I am thankful for the grace lavished on me by my Lord and Savior that I do not have to be perfect.  We stumbled.  We made mistakes.  I lost all the money for the month--twice.  We stopped and splurged (but paid cash!) on things when the money could have been going toward debt.  We still took trips (but paid cash!) to see friends and family.  Unlike the Pacific highway, our path was not perfectly straight.  But we kept correcting to get back on track.
  4. Keep moving forward.  Keep looking forward.
    • Runners often hit a wall--it's both a mental and physical block.  But we have to keep moving, even if we're taking trudging steps forward.  There were times when it felt like this would never end, that we would never be out of debt (and I use never in the most melodramatic way I can drum up).  I wanted to have a toddler tantrum greater than any I've witnessed from my children.  But then I would look forward, toward what the end might look like.  I blogged about it a few times actually.  I talked with Eli and close friends about it.  I tried to celebrate the progress, however small.  And look...here we are at the end of it.
  5. It helps to have help.
    • You will have to forgive me as I one more time brag on Eli.  He has worked so hard.  He joined the Army both because it was something he wanted to do and also to bring additional income to help pay down the loans.  He's had more than his share of days away from us over the last four years--the sacrifice has been great.  So, we've kept each other on track as best we can and moving forward.  When others have commented that we're wasting our children's childhood by not spending money on things like dance and soccer, we've stuck to our guns, together.  We've planned together, we've dreamed together, and we've worked together.  I LOVE THIS MAN!
There's a bulletin board at the school where I work that has a great quote, and this is what I want to share with you if you are thinking about becoming debt-free, or are anywhere on the continuum.


It totally is.

Cheers.

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Did you hear??

WE'RE DEBT FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
(except for the house)


Final $3600 CHUNK!, started 8/11/14, FINISHED 9/24/14!!!!!!
  fundraising ideas
Fundraising Thermometer

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Baby Baptism & Firefighter Birthday

Since Eli was out of town close to O-man's birthday, we decided to have a party the first weekend of September, and also to have Gladys baptized then, too.

The whole Beaver clan showed up and my mom flew in from Texas for the festivities.  Gladys was baptized into the body of Christ during the early service.







The big kids were antsy.  Notice that they changed places between the first two pictures?  Oscar had his finger up his nose after I specifically told him not to do that (Pastor Scott was trying hard not to laugh).  Gladys sneezed and had snot bubbles coming out of her nose.  And Elsie kept standing in front of Eli with her arms reaching up, hoping he would pick her up--even though we had told her that she needed to stand the whole time (five minutes, tops--really?).  Mostly I just wanted to strangle my older children.  But, it was a perfect picture of who we are.  We are not perfect.  (Don't look so shocked!)

After lunch and naps, we had a fourth birthday party for O.  There's a firefighter who goes to our church who told me the best way to do a firefighter birthday, and he was, of course, exactly right.  We met and had cupcakes at the public park across from Fire Station #1 in Auburn, and then crossed the street for a tour.

One added surprise is that the firefighter who was doing the demonstrations was a rookie on his first day of work, and it was someone we knew!!  When we first moved here, I did a long-term maternity sub job in a 7th grade classroom at OMS, and this kid was in that class (I'm feeling really old, now).  Then, E & O went to his mother for daycare for three years.  His mom keeps Gladys now.  We love this family!!




 As a part of the invitation, we invited families to bring treats and snacks for the firemen, which they greatly appreciated.  And I'll tell you, those firemen seemed to really enjoy hosting birthday parties, haha.









And, I must also mention the cupcakes.  I dreamed about these cupcakes for about two weeks before they became reality.  Chocolate with marshmallow cream filling.  Tri-color "flame" buttercream swirl.  They. were. delicious.  Oh, yes!




 See Gladys in the background?  She was there.  :)


Proof that Mimi came from Texas, too.  Another shot of Gladys.


 Cheers!